The notion that a bi woman will “always go back to a man” is a hateful and frankly heinous notion that ultimately negates bi folks’ identity and autonomy. I looove you but I was so disappointed to hear you echo the rampant biphobia in our community to the caller in Episode 860 who was rejected by a lesbian for being bi. We need more and better data!Ī bisexual listener wrote in - via email - to let me know my answer to a bisexual caller fell short: (My apologies to anyone who clicked on the link to his tweet before reading the next sentence.) Also, while Locked Fist Monster’s experience is relevant (and while I’m happy for his dick and feel sorry for his boyfriend), this study had a sample size of one, no control groups, no randomization, etc. I’m guessing it’s because Locked Fist Monster included a couple of photos of his big, beautiful cock in his tweet, which is obviously NSFW. Locked Fist Monster tweeted this at me… and while I would embed a tweet… Twitter won’t let me embed this particular tweet. And my erections remain as rock hard as they’ve ever been - to the joy yet consternation of my husband when he bottoms. I’ve been locked for 143 days in a row without unlocking. Listening to A caller asked if she can lock her boyfriend in a chastity cage for 24 hours without damaging his beautiful penis. Would he still be able to get hard? Would his cock - would his big, beautiful cock - somehow wind up getting smaller? Nope, says Locked Fist Monster, the host of Chastity Pod: I so enjoyed my conversation with Mae Martin - if you missed it, it’s here!Ī caller to the Lovecast was worried about damaging her boyfriend’s cock by locking it in a chastity device. Odds are, the lady who is leaving her disorder untreated (this country, health care, etc.) is exhibiting a classic borderline trait: “I am uncomfortable but will over correct for this by issuing threats.” In my experience as a licensed therapist, most people use “ BPD” to mean borderline personality disorder and the colloquial term for bipolar disorder tends to be “bipolar.” As for olfactory hallucinations - that’s a stretch. Her disorder is not her fault and shouldn’t be stigmatized, but it is her responsibility to see how it’s affecting her intimate partners and to address it. No need for him to experience emotional abuse like that. An important distinction, but the advice is the same. I’ve heard that acronym (BPD) used for both - I’m a psychology professor. (Or, I should say, definitely how the person on the receiving end views a BPD sufferer’s mood swings, angry outbursts, relationship sabotage, intense paranoia, etc.) She’s just acting like an asshole, which is definitely a symptom of borderline personality disorder.
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So, if ODOR’s fuckbuddy is suffering from borderline personality disorder and not bipolar disorder… then she’s not experiencing olfactory hallucinations, which are not a symptom of borderline personality disorder. To my everlasting shame… BiDanFan quickly spotted my mistake, whereas I didn’t spot my mistake until I read the comments days after drafting my response.
In my defense… it took BiDanFan a moment to realize BPD didn’t mean bipolar disorder, but borderline personality disorder. Wait - BPD is not bipolar disorder! It stands for borderline personality disorder. From the misppeling of “relevant” in the headline to the misidentification of a commonly acronym, mistakes were made. Thank you, Sara! But to be clear… continuously sound advice ≠ invariably sound advice. Here’s a primer on him from the New Yorker. His teachings on human intimacy & sexuality, including homosexuality, are beautiful. His teachings deconstructed and reconstructed my Catholic roots. Have you heard of the Franciscan Richard Rohr? He’s brilliant. But when you said the word contemplative on episode 861, it pushed me to write. Finally, I’m generally a quiet and respectful person, so I send this last bit with some trepidation.
I made my 16-year-old daughter watch it with me just so I could watch it again.
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